November 30, 2024
Want to Know Who's Who in 'For the Love of DILFs' for Season 3?
READ TIME: 13 MIN.
There's something difficult to resist about "For the Love of DILFs," OUT-tv's innovative dating show that is entering its third season.
Could it be the authentic way it portrays the dynamic of the attraction between older and younger men divided on the show in equal numbers between Daddies and Himbos sequestered in MILF Mansion? Is it the off-the-wall and very sexy challenges that they must participate in along the way? Or the drama that develops when their eyes wander beyond their initial matches and they're attracted to other contestants? Or is it Stormy Daniels, the show's host, who brings humor and an empathetic presence to the show? (Click here to read EDGE's interview with Daniels.)
Watch the Season 3 first episode of "For the Love of DILFs" on the OUTtv YouTube page.
And on a television landscape woefully absent of queer dating shows, "For the Love of DILFs" is something of delightful alternative to straight shows like "Love Island." It is campy and absurd – what else is there to say about Daniels and her snarky relationship with her unseen 'Dr. DILF' (Phil Horn), whose commentary is actually very funny? But it also, as Collider wrote in a rave review of its first two seasons earlier this year, "also spotlighting important aspects of LGBTQ+ culture that most mainstream shows wouldn't touch. 'For the Love of DILFs' may be extremely outlandish, but its commitment to its premise and the surprisingly nuanced identities on display create a thoroughly enjoyable and informative watch for all."
Whatever the reason, the show has caught on. To watch it, visit OUTtv at this link. And beforehand, check out this season's contestants, divided between the Himbos (anyone under 35) and the Daddies (35 and up).
Dani
IG: @mixedkidvibes
TikTok: @mixedkidvibes
According to Dani's Instagram post they are "The first GNC gaysian heartthrob to grace the American TV screen," being half-Latin and half-Japanese. A queer gamer, you may have seen him in an ad for the catchy Lady Gaga x Beat Saber release. And while he is looking for something meaningful - not just a hookup, he admits to Pride that the "most important part of a connection would definitely be sexual because at the end of the day my best girl friend could check off all of my emotional and intellectual boxes but I definitely don't want to fuck my best girl friend! I need to know that my partner is going to keep my juices flowing!"
"I'M ON TV B!*CHES!!! 🥳" he writes on his Instagram.
Jay
IG: @jayseabrook_
X: @JaySeabrook
TikTok: jayseabrook
With more than 85,000 followers on X, Adult male performer Jay Seabrook already has a substantial following. In all likelihood, being one of the Himbos will help that grow to well past 100,000. But the Vegas-based Jay tells Pride that he's looking for something more in a relationship, and he's something of a romantic. "I loved to see the raw honesty of deep human connection that you saw with the other contestants. It's hard to be able to connect with people nowadays and the show provides many opportunities for those feelings to develop naturally." But airheads need not apply. "I can't deal with immaturity, lack of emotional intelligence, and all in all lack of perspective or life experience that I feel I need in a partner to fully connect with them."
Justin
Easily the most private of the Himbos, Justin doesn't have a social media presence to show himself off to the world. To Pride he describes himself as "a young, dumb, twenty-something" and hopes one of the Daddies will find that appealing. "With an older guy, there's a sense of consistency and stability that I find incredibly appealing. . ." he tells Pride. He is looking for a Daddy that can match his energy level and has a passion. And most of all has a sense of humor. "If we can make each other laugh, that's a sure sign that we're on the same wavelength. Commitment to the bit is always sexy,"
Samuel
IG: @gaddydaddy_
X: @DaddyGady
Twitch: @DaddyGady
"🌈 The Snack that smiles back," Samuel describes himself on his TwitchTV page. "Just your friendly neighborhood LGBTQ+ streamer here to play games, make people laugh and make connections." The handsome 20-something was born and raised in Los Angeles, and has an Egyptian heritage. He is also a father to a four-year-old Shit Tzu, Lily, who loves and adores. He admits to Pride that he has always dated older men. "I'm very direct, communicate well, and enjoy the idea of being taken care of by someone that is older than me. I wanted a partner who mimics the same qualities that I bring to a relationship." But his Daddy needs to have a keen fashion sense. ""My biggest turn on in a man is someone who exudes confidence and has a good sense of fashion. A man who can dress well and communicate effectively can steal my heart."
Timmy
IG: @timmyyhilton
TikTok: @timmyhilton
One of the questions surrounding Timmy Hilton is just what is his relationship with Paris Hilton? He often shares pics of her, as well as her merchandise – is there a stronger connection than just being a fan? He is another Himbo who has always gravitated towards older men. "Whether that be 25 years older, or three years older," he tells Pride. "I feel that I have experienced many things in my life so far and it has made me more mature than others my age, and I ideally need my partner to have that life experience, maturity, and overall common sense, which is surprisingly hard to find nowadays." What turns him on in a partner are "financial stability, a sense of maturity, height, and good hygiene. I find it extremely attractive when someone can match my energy in all aspects of a relationship whether that be emotional, intellectual, or sensual."
And The Daddies. . .
David
IG: @davidmsmithjr
David is one busy man. He currently resides in Puerto Vallarta (by way of New York City) where he's a charity & event consultant by day, PV Real Estate guru by night. He finds dating younger men appealing because "often have a fresh perspective on life, vigorous energy and enthusiasm, and there is the opportunity to share new experiences with them that might be new to both of us. No matter what age you are, you can always learn a lot from those both younger and older than you!," he explains to Pride. He adds that the way to his heart isn't by grand gestures, but the little things. "The way to win over my heart is through little acts of kindness. Whether that be an endearing look, a surprise kiss, or a little note to make the day better, those small actions make me melt way more than big gestures. "The way to win over my heart is through little acts of kindness. Whether that be an endearing look, a surprise kiss, or a little note to make the day better, those small actions make me melt way more than grand gestures."
Foxx
IG: @HeSoFoXxy
TikTok: @HeSoFoXxy
Facebook: @HeSoFoXxy
On social media, Foxx uses the handle @HeSoFoXxy and uses the motto, MyLifeMyRules. The digital creator works in health advocacy and considers himself both body and sex positive in his outlook on life. He is also a podcaster (The Unklez Podcast #HeSoFoXxy). Talking to Pride, he is every inch the confident DILF. "I love everything about me so I'm conformant showing it off. Also seeing the HIMBOS fighting for their Daddy's attention." What he likes about younger men is their "the youthful spirit, something about it is engaging. The energy flows to me and keeps me on my toes, and I like a challenge."
Nicholas
IG: @famouzboyz
TikTok: @nikkorod
Some will likely recognize this successful entrepreneur as one of the amateur bakers on Hulu's "Baker's Dozen," for which he competed for a cash prize and a golden rolling pin. On "For the Love of DILFs," he also competes for a cash prize ($10,000 courtesy of Scruff), but also the chance for a relationship. He says to Pride that it was fate that brought him to the show. "I was leaving my gym in Jan of this year, and said, 'I wonder what this year has in store for me?' About two hours later I'm on a call with producers! I had just decided that I was ready to start dating, and downloaded Scruff, so when this opportunity came, I was like this is the universe speaking to me! So I cleared my schedule and headed down to DILF Mansion!" As for dating younger men, it just feels right to the much-tatted Nicholas. "I think dating someone younger makes me feel younger at heart, I have a young spirit and I don't feel my age, so younger def makes me feel more my mental mindset," he explains.
Robert
IG: @Nocommando1
X: @Nocommandojock
Robert arrives at MILF mansion after a major life change. "I was very recently divorced from a woman," he explains to Pride. He sees the show as an opportunity "to meet and engage with multiple younger men in an interesting dating experience. Almost like speed dating accelerated by 10 times. [I] certainly felt like this would be a unique experience to find love!" One reason he is seeking a younger man is that he hopes they will be able to match his energy and passion. "Even though I am older I don't really identify myself as older. I find the energy, both sexual and non-sexual, with young men intoxicating." As an older divorced successful man I feel like I have much to offer a partner. I also feel that I have much to learn. It really makes for a very interesting relationship if it is the right scenario with mutual respect. Not to mention how fucking hot the right younger dude can be!"
Victor
IG: @writervicyates
X: @writervicyates
TikTok: @writervicyates
YouTube: @writervicyates
The accomplished and multi-talented Victor has the honor of winning a Lambda Literary Award for his book "A Love Like Blood." He is also a journalist, poet, and social media manager. He chose to come on "For the Love of DILFs" to shake things up a bit. "I sit behind a computer or stand in a classroom every day and rarely go out. Therefore, I thought being on the show would help me to find love with someone who is like minded," he tells PRIDE. One of the reasons he is seeking the companionship of a younger man is that he finds his peers to be "less adventurous. I like to travel, hike in new destinations and visit book shops around the world. None of my boyfriends ever wanted to adventure with me." He also hopes a Himbo can stimulate him intellectually as well. "My biggest turn-on is if a guy reads poetry or has just finished reading a book and he wants to tell me all about it," he shared, adding, "If someone wants to snatch my heart they can curate a date for me starting at a museum, going to a tea shop, then going to a park to eat."